IMHO these three stupid words should be struck from all usage. I don’t care if you’re trying to be funny. Just don’t.
PS the paper looks crumpled because when this was shown to me I read it and crumpled it up and pitched it over my shoulder. Without losing a beat.
Your own gut tells you what to do. And if your gut is in two minds, it’s up to you to seek out a trusted person and ask advice.